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A wedding day commemoration

Posted by Mike on July 24, 2008, from New York, New York

Steve Ketcham & Alexandra Budny.

On July 18, 2008, just hours after taking their marriage vows at City Hall, Alexandra Budny and Steven Ketcham came to our Lower Manhattan StoryBooth to commemorate the day with a recording for future generations of their family.

The pair met for the first time when Steve helped Ali’s mother move into the home his father had just moved out of. Ali’s mother had more foresight than anyone else. When she first met Steve, she told him, “My name is Nadia, I’m going to be your future mother-in-law.” A week later, Steve and Ali were dating. Six years and two months lateróafter supporting each other through both their parents’ deathsóthey are living in the same home where they first met, and where they hope to grow gray together. “I would be very happy living there. That house is important,” said Ali.

“It’s how we met and it’s what binds us,” said Steve. “What I see is you completely gray, with wrinkles, but still looking beautiful, still having that charm. I’m going to be gray as well, with a big round belly and I probably will have shrunk a couple inches. And just sitting there chatting, looking out on our yard.”

As their forty minutes in the booth wound down, Ali commented, “We have a very interesting story and I hope that it continues to surprise us.”

Congratulations Steve and Ali!

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24 Responses to “A wedding day commemoration”

  1. Billy Ketcham says:

    Steve and Ali: Congratulations! So happy for you…and looking forward to celebrating with you! Love, Brother B.

  2. Amy Ketcham says:

    What a wonderful story – we are so happy for both of you.
    We love you! Love, Amy

  3. Roert Budny says:

    Steve and Ali, II wish you the wonderful marriage that you both deserve.
    Steve, now that you are family I will have to be nice to you!
    Lots of Love, dad

  4. Kathy Ketcham says:

    What a great story! We can’t wait to read (watch/participate in) the next chapters. We all love you so much. Kathy, Pat, Robyn, Ali, and Ben

  5. Daniel Budny says:

    Congratulations! Parabens! Gung hei! Sash, good job–I approve. Steve, you’re my favorite brother-in-law. Welcome to the fam!

  6. Kelsey says:

    I love you guys. : ) Congrats.

  7. Emily Goodeve says:

    I love you two so much! And I am so, so happy for you both!

  8. Rachael Winfree says:

    Congratulations guys!! Lots love, Rae

  9. Debbie Goodeve says:

    To have Ali in the Ketcham family is a dream come true! You are a match “made in heaven” and we couldn’t be happier for both of you! (or for us!) We love you! – Debbie & Grant

  10. marissa says:

    Congratulations Ali & Steve! I love you both so much and wish you all the happiness in the world as you embark on this new chapter together. You have inspired me so much both as individuals and as a couple.
    All my love,
    Marissa

  11. Randy Tauber says:

    To a beautiful couple
    Who is destined
    For an even more beautiful future

    All our love,
    Marc and Randy

  12. Billy, Emmett, et al says:

    Pretty damned exciting!!! As Johnny would have said, you guys are the bomb!

  13. Monica & Anthony says:

    We are so thrilled for the two of you! What a wonderful journey you will both have. You know true love and friendship and that is the bond that will keep you strong through the years. Enjoy this road together and always, always have fun!
    All our love and blessings,
    Anthony & Monica

  14. Michael DeAngelo says:

    Steve and Ali Congrats to you both. God bless you both. I wish you all the best!!

  15. Micah Treuer says:

    Congrats guys! What an awesome thing to come across! Best wishes.

  16. clarisse luca juliette elsa says:

    Dear Steve and Ali,

    have a very good trip across life holding each other as you have already started!
    And hope to see you in France, in the city or in Brasil, soon…

    bises.

  17. Carrie Walter says:

    Great news, so happy for you both!
    All the best.

  18. Gail says:

    Ali, thanks for sharing your wonderful photos and story. Congrats to both of you!
    Wishing you and Steve much happiness,
    Love,
    Gail

  19. Renate Berthold says:

    Dear Ali and Steve,
    Congratulations ! That is wonderful news, I am very happy for you and I know Nadja is. I wish you happiness always ! Keep me posted and come for a visit.
    Love,
    Renate

  20. Becky Simkhai says:

    Dear Ali & Steve,
    What wonderful news, congratulations!!!! Wishing you a wonderful life together filled with lots of good health, lots of good laughs & lots of good meals to be made together.
    All my love,
    Becky

  21. Andre Nogueira-Kourkoulis says:

    Hey guys! Congrats! You look so happy together! May your future be filled with lots of love and the brightest lights! Xoxoxo Andre

  22. Nu_tum Angel says:

    Hey!! guys ..

    I’m a student from Thailand at a University in the US.

    First of all, i need to say Congratulations both of you.

    Thx for sharing your lovely story..

    i hope you guy will have other story share with us soon..

    All best wishes for you both..

  23. Krystyn DePree says:

    You two are the perfect example of a loving, supportive union. What you have is incredibly special and I hope for a lifetime together of memories, family, and children. Your website is amazing. You’re story is the kind most of dream of. Love you both.

  24. Gayatri Bhatnagar says:

    Dear Sasha and Steve,
    Congratulations! I’m so happy for you! Stevie, I think you are the luckiest man in the world! Wishing you a lifetime of joy, love, health! I can’t believe my little sasha is married! Love you always my sister!
    xoxox Goody

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